@theNoz After my life fell apart, I left that situation, and all it entailed, and got a little apartment. I had incidences of 1-off panic attacks. Now for me, I was not used to this except for near-death experiences and certain, very specific “6-flags” type amusement rides. The first one I had brought me to my knees. I though I was going to die. tight chest, pounding heart, the feeling I could not breathe in, disorientation, sweat, loss of hearing, loss of vision (not complete, more like tunnel vision), and the perception that everything was in slow motion. After I did not actually die, I figured it would not happen again. Then this little event happened again and again. after the 3rd month of regular, (2-6 times a week) excruciating experiences, randomly occurring (day, night, shower, driving, sleeping), I first talked to my brother (he is a doctor) then I went to my endo.
For me I was never anxious to the point of symptoms. Like you I am fine when sh*t goes sideways - burst pipes water hitting the ceiling, car fires, bleeding, kids drowning in a pool, natural gas leaks, nephew caught in a rip tide, electrical shorts causing fires… been there and never even broke a sweat. So these “attacks” were crazy, new, . and very unsettling.
After the physiological issues were checked off, no tumor, no irregular heartbeat, no massive problem with chemistry, no electrical problems with the heart, no faulty vagal nerve, and I even put the goofy colander on my head and all brain waves “looked ok to me” (said the specialist) , So eliminating all that stuff lead me to deal with what’s “inside” my head.
Got me a therapist and worked on general anxiety, cut alcohol and caffeine (the latter was painful) started daily exercise, and I did other self-help oriented work, largely dealing with my own thought process and how it affects me. So fast forward almost 20 years to today. Now I am “sensitive” but with a glance at my CGM I can tell the difference between a panic attack and a low, I can also check-in with my triggers and “talk myself down” if it is only in my head. I put in a SOLID 10 years of work, followed by 10 years of coasting and now I find myself feeling better when I am doing “maintenance” type work.
I recommend eliminating any and all physical potential problems. That IMO is definitely where you want to start. and good luck on your journey!