Venting step dad wos

I'm having an on going fight with my husband...by daughters step dad about checking her at 3 am ish...I sometimes have a hard time waking up to check and he it gets so upset with me...I'm just so tired its hard to wake up. He is being a butt!

It does not help right now she is in the "I don't want diabetes anymore stage" I can go to bed early, but lord knows what she will eat and if she will remember to bolus for it on top of that. It feels like the middle of the night is the only time I have to get her numbers right sometimes. At least then she will wake up in a good rang. 

There are no good answers I know. This too will pass...